As early as the honeymoon or after 25 years together, ouples can drift apart for many reasons. Some are heading straight for the rocks. Here are the most common reasons:
Loss of trust and respect.
Criticism, sarcasm and complaints.
Defensiveness and stonewalling.
Bitterness and Unforgiveness
Betrayals and affairs.
Life, health and career changes.
No sex or low sex marriage.
If you find these issues or others are dividing your marriage, its time to get back on course. Christian Marriage counseling in Pasadena can help couples resolve their hurts, learn new ways to communicate and productively work through conflicts. Love, trust and affection can be restored again. Empathy for each other can grow through couples therapy.
Based on today's the best marriage research , together with timeless biblical principles, marriage counseling sessions offers the keys to a lasting and loving marriage.
If you are thinking of divorce--let's talk first. You may feel done with your marriage, but I've seen couples restored and recovered from all of the above problems. Yes, it will take effort and time, but usually couples can see positive changes happen within the first five sessions.
No one wishes for a divorce and all its pain. Even God said, "I hate divorce." (Mal.2:16) No matter how far you have grown apart or hardened your heart, give therapy a try. I've seen couples pleasantly surprised at how they reconciled. Many times their marriages became better than they were in the beginning because some underlying problems were finally surfaced and resolved.
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